Betty Mulvaney passed away Saturday, March 14, at Aspen Gardens of natural causes.
Helping others, working hard, developing lots of friendships and maintaining a sense of humor were the guidelines Betty Ann Simpson Mulvaney followed with great success over her lifetime of 91+ years.
Betty was born in Deer Lodge on March 19, 1923, the daughter of Thomas Simpson and Ethel Boyle Simpson. Her father was a miner and farmer/rancher.
She grew up in a small log house in the Racetrack area, about ten miles south of Deer Lodge. She attended a country school in the area through the fifth grade. Within walking distance was the neighboring Hanson family, and she was good friends with the five Hanson children—Mildred, Eleanor, Lars, Rose Clare and Minetta. The latter two, Rose Clare (Kallet) and Minetta (Wilson), became close life-long friends.
Beginning In the sixth grade, Betty took the school bus into Deer Lodge to attend school, and went on to graduate from Powell County High School in Deer Lodge in 1940.
She then moved to Helena to enroll in nurses training classes at the old St. John’s Hospital in Helena, where she received her registered nurse degree from Saint John’s Hospital School of Nursing in Sept., 1944. This was the era of World War Two, and Betty joined the Army Nurse Corps in 1945 and was stationed in San Francisco. Just prior to her scheduled departure overseas, World War Two ended. Her rank was 2LT, and she received the American Campaign medal and the World War II Victory medal.
Betty married Bob Mulvaney, a World War Two veteran who served on the European front, in 1947 in Helena.
Both attended Carroll College under the new GI Bill of Rights, and after the arrival of their first son, Tom, in July of 1948, they moved to Carroll Village (where the current Lundy Shopping Center is now located).
Betty enrolled in the newly organized Department of Nursing Education program at Carroll. She was one of four graduate nurses that became the first class to earn a Bachelor of Science degree in Nursing Education at Carroll. The other three members of that first class went on to become lifelong friends of Betty’s, and included Madeline Samson, Rosaleen Mullen and Sylvia Malencik.
In 1953, Bob took a job at the Free Enterprise Health Mine near Boulder, and the family of four, which now included baby Bill, took up residence on 3rd Street in Boulder. Betty had great neighborhood friends, including Nora and Pup Schiavon, Ling Mark, Ollie (and Roy) Murray, the Johnson’s across the street, and Marie and Art Aspengren. Among her other Boulder friends were Margaret Keating, Lee Simons, Babe Trettin, Jo Phelan and JoAnne McFarlane.
But the family’s closest neighbors both in proximity (an 8-foot wide driveway was all that separated their houses on 3rd Street) and friendship was the Molitor family. Mom thought the world of Morris and Mary Molitor and their children, Kathy, Don and Mike.
Betty worked for many years as a nurse and instructor at the Boulder River School, a state institution for the developmentally disabled. She served 15 years as in-service directing of training. Her two sons both attended Boulder grade school and graduated from Jefferson County High School in Boulder.
In 1972, Betty moved to Helena following her divorce from Bob. She worked as a RN at St. Peter’s Hospital until her retirement in 1985. She lived in a basement apartment at the Lois Beyer home on 9th Street in Helena for many happy years. Her neighborhood friends included Lois and Bill Beyer, Sally Hilander and Vera Black. She also cherished her many nursing friends, including Mary Mouat, Helen Amundson, Marion Sweet (Wright), Miriam Tournai, Terry Temple, Nancy Whetzel, Linda Swang, Jackie Lamphier. Linda (Pierce) Shinn, Lois Buchanan, Mary Clark, Judy Schweyen, Evonne Blackburn, Ruby McClure, Kathleen Hunthausen. Mary Patton and Jan Isola, to name just a few. Betty’s basement apartment was host to many festive get-togethers, most notably an annual Mardi Gras celebration.
During the days when Frontier Town was open, it was a tradition to celebrate Mother’s Day there with the Mouat family, Mary and Marty, and their children, Chris, Amy and Josh.
Betty enjoyed travel, especially after her retirement, and socializing with her many friends over the years, including Mary Molitor, Mercedes Steigler, Montee Casteel, Lois Beyer and her son, Bill, Carol Sandin, Jan Schossow, Phyllis and Steve Radnich, Helen and Cleber Amundson, Boomer and JoAnne Priebe and many more.
She made trips to Hawaii twice, where she visited her childhood friend, Minetta Wilson and her daughter Linda and her family. She also visited New York City twice, where she visited another childhood friend, Rose Clair Kallet.
One of her lifetime highlights was a trip to Washington D.C. for the dedication of the “Women in Military Service for American” Memorial, honoring U.S. Women veterans in 1997. She attended this event with Helen Amundson, Sylvia Malencik and Rose Clair Kallet.
On May 8, 1999, Betty proudly walked the aisle to the podium at the Carroll College graduation ceremony, to receive a Golden Jubilarian award from President Matthew Quinn to commemorate her graduation from Carroll 50 years prior.
Betty enjoyed walking in her later years. A breast cancer survivor, she particularly enjoyed walking in the Race for the Cure event. Another favorite walking destination was Terry Dagenais’ Convenient Store which was located next to First Security Bank, where she banked for over 30 years. She loved to visit and joke with Terry.
After her retirement from St. Peter’s Hospital, Betty enjoyed her visits to the Lakeside home of her friends, Helen and Cleber Amundson (and children Margaret and Charlie), and neighbor friends, Joanne and Boomer Priebe. The Amundson home overlooking the lake provided a great vantage point for her bird watching hobby. She was an avid birdwatcher and particularly enjoyed watching the eagles and some of the more unusual birds in the Helena and Lake Helena area.
She particularly enjoyed the Christmas decorations during the holidays and the Fourth of July displays. Spending the Christmas season in Hingham with son Bill and Cathy and all their grandchildren was an annual highlight for many years. Opening presents and watching the grandchildren perform Christmas skits under Alexa’s direction always provided joy and laughter.
Betty liked baseball, and was always excited when Rob Johnson had a good game for the Seattle Mariners. Rob, now retired from major league baseball, is the son of cousin Eileen (Bennett) and Bob Johnson of Butte.
She moved to Eagles Manor in about 1996 and then to Aspen Garden Assisted Living Housing in 2009. She received excellent care at both facilities, and expressed gratitude and respect for Bobbie Sue Caruthers and her staff at Eagles; and to Aimee Shein and Sherri Maharg and their staff at Aspen Gardens, including nurse Kathy Brothers.
She kept her mind active in her later years by reading books obtained from Richard Van Nice’s Book Store, and doing crossword puzzles. She particularly enjoyed historical books, both fiction and non-fiction, and liked books by John Michener, Nicholas Sparks and Dorothy Macumber, and an occasional Danielle Steele or Nora Roberts, but was not pleased with “all the bad language” in the latter two author’s book. She watched a few television shows, and her favorites were the Lawrence Welk Show, Jeopardy, Wheel of Fortune, and most recently, The Voice and American Idol. A tradition in her last years was watching Sixty Minutes on Sunday night with her son Tom. Recently, they watched the Roosevelt miniseries by Ken Burns, which brought back many memories to Betty.
Betty was also very appreciative of the care she received from Dr. Connie O’Conner and from Dr. Heather McRee and the caring staff at the Lewis & Clark Cooperative Health Center. When Betty entered the hospice program in July of 2014, she received wonderful care from the staff of Frontier Hospice. She enjoyed many visits from her friends and relatives in the final months of her life.
Betty is preceded in death by her parents, Ethel Boyle Simpson and Thomas Simpson; her former husband, Robert J. Mulvaney, her aunts and uncles, Mae Keiley, Katy Bennett, Martha Bennett, Patrick Boyle and Johnny Boyle; her Keiley cousins–Rita Mae, Ann, Jack, Joe and Vince (and wife Ruth); her favorite inlaws, Bud and Bobbie Mulvaney; good friend and in-law Elizabeth McCormick, Jim and Helen Bennett and many other cousins from the Mulvaney, Bennett and Keiley clans.
She is survived by her two sons, Bill (Cathy) Mulvaney of Hingham and Tom (Jill) Mulvaney of East Helena; her extended family from Havre–grandchildren Jeff (Keri) Lipp and Jackie (Denny) Kannberg; great grandchildren Alexa (John) Christians, Mikaela Lipp, Sierra Kannberg, Savanna Kannberg, Jadey Lipp and Jace Lipp; and great great granchildren Carson and Kage Christian and Dre’ Carroll.
She is also survived by many cousins, including Mike (Jackie) Keiley, Jeannie Keiley, Pat Keiley, Mary (Ethan) Keiley Rogers, Margaret (Mike) Mulvaney Wagner, Patti (Paul) Mulvaney Hunthausen, Fletcher (Karen) Mulvaney, Roy (Cynthia) Mulvaney, Cathy Bennett, Joan (Robert) Bennett English, Eileen (Bob) Bennett Johnson, James J. (Karen) Bennett, Kenneth (Pat) Bennett and a lifetime accumulation of good friends.
A viewing will be held from 10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. Thursday, March 19, 2015 at Retz Funeral Home, 315 E. 6th Ave., with a visitation also to be held from 2:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m., Thursday, March 19th, in the St. Joseph’s room at St. Mary’s Catholic Community Church, 1700 Missoula Ave. A Vigil Service will follow the visitation at 3:00 p.m., Thursday, March 19th, at the Church. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 1:00 p.m., Friday, March 20th, at St. Mary’s Catholic Community Church followed by the Rite of Committal with Military Honors at Resurrection Cemetery. A reception will immediately follow the Committal in the Banquet Hall of Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home, 3750 N. Montana Ave. Please visit below to offer the family a condolence or to share a memory of Betty.
Service Schedule
Viewing
10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m
Thursday March 19, 2015
Retz Funeral Home
315 E. 6th Ave
Helena, MT 59601
Vigil
3:00 p.m.
Thursday March 19, 2015
St. Mary's Catholic Community Church
1700 Missoula Ave
Helena, MT 59601
Funeral Mass
1:00 p.m.
Friday March 20, 2015
St. Mary's Catholic Community Church
1700 Missoula Ave
Helena, MT 59601
Rite of Committal
Immediately following the funeral Mass
Friday March 20, 2015
Resurrection Cemetery
Helena, MT 59602
Reception
Immediately following the Committal
Friday March 20, 2015
Banquet hall of Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, MT 59602
Service Schedule
Viewing
10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m
Thursday March 19, 2015
Retz Funeral Home
315 E. 6th Ave
Helena, MT 59601
Vigil
3:00 p.m.
Thursday March 19, 2015
St. Mary's Catholic Community Church
1700 Missoula Ave
Helena, MT 59601
Funeral Mass
1:00 p.m.
Friday March 20, 2015
St. Mary's Catholic Community Church
1700 Missoula Ave
Helena, MT 59601
Rite of Committal
Immediately following the funeral Mass
Friday March 20, 2015
Resurrection Cemetery
Helena, MT 59602
Reception
Immediately following the Committal
Friday March 20, 2015
Banquet hall of Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, MT 59602
Judi (Simons) Saarinen says
What a wonderful tribute to Betty, we have fond memories of her and have thought about her often over the years. I’m thinkin there is a great reunion going on with all of those “nurses”..may she rest in peace.
Kathy Brothers says
Tom & Bill
Betty was a awesome lady. She always had something nice to say about everyone she met. I’ll miss her and your visits to Aspen Gardens. Prayers to your families. Betty rest in peace
Marty and Mary Mouat says
Oh Tom and Bill–what a wonderful tribute to your Mom. She was just about the most even tempered, sweet person who never said a bad thing about anyone!!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you begin this new chapter in your family life. Bless her!!! Never a Mother’s Day goes by without fond remembrances of our special celebrations at Frontier Town My Mom so enjoyed Betty! We will never forget our Betty Boop!!!
Bob & JoAnn Priebe says
We are so going to miss Betty, we just loved to get her laughing.
Helen and Cleber Amundson says
Betty was an amazing friend that my family and I were privileged to know and spend many fun and happy times with. Our group of nurses always enjoyed taking Betty our favorite veteran out to honor her service on Veterans Day. I was so proud to accompany her to the dedication of the Women in Military Service Memorial in DC; what an amazing celebration. Betty was always there with the best advice and a good laugh. I will never forget when my mother died and Betty told me “it would be ok; she would be my mom now”.
Rest in peace my dear friend.
Josh Mouat says
Betty was an absolutely fantastic lady. I have many fond memories of going to Frontier Town for Mother’s Day and she was certainly one of the reasons which made it a special time. I will always remember how nice she was to me when I was a lad.
Cathy McKeever says
Was sad to hear of Bettys passing. I met Betty at a party at JoAnn and Bob Priebe’s.(my sister) Had such nice visits with her when I was able to see her on my visits to Helena to see JoAnn and Bob. My thoughts and prayers to all of the Family and friends.
Mike Molitor says
Tom & Bill – What a wonderful mother you had. I have so many good memories of spending time with your mom – too many to write here. She was truly a wonderful lady and a ball of fire at the same time. Small in stature, but very mighty! She was an amazing friend to my family when she lived in Boulder and onto the years in Helena.
Drew Dawson says
Tom and Bil,
I have such very fond memories of your mother as a friend and as a co-worker. She just radiated enthusiasm, energy, good will and a positive attitude. She was such fun to be around. She was a terrific lady!
Drew
Richard Van Nice says
Hugs and condolences to Tom and the family. Betty was one of the best friendly critics of books, both fiction and nonfiction. If Betty liked the tome, I had good reason to suggest
it to other readers, and the works she enjoyed had to be engaging, interesting and
fun. As she goes on to her next chapter, I picture her smile and connections. She is
and will be missed.
Peace, Van.
Dan Rieder says
Tom and Bill: You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your mom. She was a grand lady – and did a phenomenal job of raising the two of you – instilling the values and character that both of you display so well! I had the privilege of working with Betty when she was the lead instructor in the In-Service Training Department at the State Training School – she was dedicated to her work and performed her duties extremely well. However, at all times, uppermost in her mind were the two of you and your welfare. She was immensely proud of you both!
Dan
Susan Deming says
Roy and Cynthia,
I am unable to attend Betty’s funeral but please know that you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Susan
Ron & Connie (Richardson) Zendron says
Tom & Bill:
Please accept our condolences on the loss of your mom. She was a wonderful lady to all of us “kids”. Our thoughts and prayers are with the both of you and your families.
Ron & Connie
Jean Keiley says
Tom and Bill,
I have such fond memories of spending time and holidays with you and Betty. She showed us all how to be kind and look for the best in people. Very, very sorry for your loss and grateful to have known her and you both.
Jeannie
Deleah Smith says
Tom,
Your beautiful words brought tears to my eyes. I am so glad I had a chance to meet your mother. She was a wonderful person just like you. She will be greatly missed. Wish I was there for you.
Love,
Lee
Rudy & Teresa Tomich says
Tom, Bill and families – Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I remember your mom as a kind and gentle woman who made everyone feel welcome. You two are excellent examples of the good work she did. Remember the good times. They are not lost just different.
Mary Rogers(Keiley) and Family says
Tom and Bill,
I have such great memories of spending Christmas, Thanksgiving, and 4th of July gatherings with Betty and both of you.
I remember going to Betty’s basement apartment and she showed us the weights that you got for her to exercise with.
My dad and mom also enjoyed spending time with Betty.
Mary
Minetta wilson says
Betty was such a dear friend. Just the thought of her warms my heart. She will be with us always and our prayers are with tom and bill. Love and aloha, linda
Miriam Tournai says
I salute Betty. She was a very special friend, that will be missed by many. I remember as a new nurse starting my first job at St Pete’s, Betty took the time to mentor me and added to my love of nursing. I cherished her friendship and love. We had great times at St. Pete’s with Betty standing by “her cart”. God Bless the Betty and the Mulvaney family. My sincere sympathy, Miriam Tournai