Frederick Arthur DeWolf Jr., age 90, a retired long time Helena merchant died May 8, 2013 at the Big Sky Care Center in Helena.
Fred was born May 19, 1922 in Cambridge, Massachusetts to Frederick Arthur DeWolf Sr. and Anna May (Shriner) DeWolf. Along with his brothers, William and George, they ran the Union Market Grocery Store and Butcher Shop until he retired in 1986. The store was a Helena icon and the three brothers had a can-do attitude that allowed them to prosper despite chain store competitors.
The brothers passed out hundreds of free hot dogs for shoppers at the meat counter to munch on while they made their selections. At times, the small market at the corner of Sixth and Jackson filled to capacity with customers lined up in rows of three to four deep and three to four wide. Besides selling custom cut meats, the business took telephone grocery orders and delivered by pickup to customers throughout Helena. The three brothers had a strong rapport with their customers and they became known as the “By Golly Boys” for their folksy dialogue.
Fred was drafted into World War II in 1943. He ended up in Africa firing anti-aircraft guns. Six months later he joined the Signal Corps where he was assigned to coding and deciphering top secret messages. The job was in Italy and while there, Fred was granted an audience with Pope Pius the 12th.
With the end of the War, Fred returned to Helena and he married Shirley Lou Kelsey on February 14th, 1948. He graduated from Carroll College in 1949 and then went to work at the Union Market, which was then owned by his father.
Fred needed a house, so he built one. Using lumber hauled from a lumber mill at Silver City, he hired a contractor to excavate the basement and then he went to work doing everything else from roofing to framing to plumbing and wiring. Fred was an enthusiastic swimmer and an avid gardener. He will be deeply missed.
Fred is preceded in death by his parents, Frederick Arthur DeWolf Sr. and Anna May (Shriner) DeWolf; his wife, Shirley Lou (Kelsey) DeWolf; his son, Kenneth Ray DeWolf; and his brother, George DeWolf. He is survived by his son, Jim DeWolf and his wife, Marlene DeWolf; granddaughter, Jordan Benham and her husband, Andrew Benham; grandson, Scott DeWolf; his brother William ‘Bill’ DeWolf; and his sister, Joan Kain and her husband, Larry Kain.
Family will begin to receive friends from 10 -11 a.m., on Wednesday, May 15 at Retz Funeral Home with the funeral service to
follow at 11:00 a.m. at the funeral home. Interment with military honors will be held at Sunset Memorial Gardens Cemetery following the service. A reception will be held at Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home Banquet Hall, 3750 N. Montana Ave. following the graveside service.To offer the family a condolence or share a memory of Fred, please visit below.
Service Schedule
Funeral Service
11:00 a.m.
Wednesday May 15, 2013
Retz Funeral Home
315 East 6th Avenue
Helena, Montana 59601
Interment
Following funeral service with Military Honors
Wednesday May 15, 2013
Sunset Memorial Gardens
7100 N. Montana
Helena, Montana 59602
Reception
Following Graveside Service
Wednesday May 15, 2013
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home Banquet Hall
3750 N. Montana Avenue
Helena, Montana 59602
Service Schedule
Funeral Service
11:00 a.m.
Wednesday May 15, 2013
Retz Funeral Home
315 East 6th Avenue
Helena, Montana 59601
Interment
Following funeral service with Military Honors
Wednesday May 15, 2013
Sunset Memorial Gardens
7100 N. Montana
Helena, Montana 59602
Reception
Following Graveside Service
Wednesday May 15, 2013
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home Banquet Hall
3750 N. Montana Avenue
Helena, Montana 59602
Sue and Wilber Clark says
Dear Jim and Marlene and family,
Our most sincere thoughts and condolences go out to you all in the memory
of a great man and friend.
Sincerely, Wilber and Sue
Denise DeWolf Martin says
Jim and Marlene,
What a year. One we will not forget for a long time. I am so sorry I cannot be there as we are in California. But I am thinking of you all. I know for dad this is a tough one and probably Joan also. I love the picture you picked as it is the Uncle Fred I remember and the obit is beautiful. Hope to see you again soon and hope his celebration goes well.
My condolences. A blessing and a very sad day all in one.
Denise
ray Luchi says
i worked for Bill Dewolf at union market in the early 1980s till they retired and fred was a really nice guy , he ran the grocery side and bill the meat market side oh my gosh what a fun time in my life and i learned things from these 2 brothers that have made me abetter man to this day , Fred always treated me with respect and will be missed a great man god bless you Fred, Fred and Bill thank you for yr most exellant service during ww2 , I always think you people like you 2 when i think of being free in america